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Best Ways to Bond / Improve Your Relationship with Your Child

Parents want to have good relationships with their children, built on mutual respect and love. This is easier said than done, however, and almost all parents have room for improvement. Even if you think you're doing a pretty good job, you still might want to find ways to improve your relationship with your child and keep it strong. As your child grows up and you change too, you might have to put in more effort to stay close to each other. There are many ways you improve your relationship, so consider some of these options to get started.

Have One-on-One Time
If you have more than one child, you might spend a lot of time together as a whole family unit. However, it's also important to try to spend time with each of your children individually. They should all feel like they get equal care and attention from you, although, in reality, this might need to be proportionate to their ages and needs. One-on-one time with your kids could be a number of things. It could mean a special day out or an important conversation. Or it could just be taking one of them to the shop with you (and next time, taking someone else).



Spend Some Time Apart
This might seem counterproductive, but spending some time away from each other actually could help to improve your relationship. There are a few reasons for this that you might consider. Firstly, it can help to give your child more independence. It can also allow you the space you need away from each other. They do say that absence makes the heart grow fonder. You might consider checking out the best babysitting website for your area and hiring a babysitter. A babysitter can be someone outside of your family who your kids can have fun with. It gives them time to learn how to interact with others (and manage their behaviour around them), and you get some time to yourself.

Talk to Each Other
Talking to your children is essential if you want them to be able to share their feelings and talk about their problems. If you're not much of a talker yourself, it can be hard. However, it's worth trying to open up if it will help your children be honest with you. As well as asking them about their thoughts and feelings, share yours too. It will help them to learn empathy and show them that you can empathise with them too.

Give Them Responsibility
Trusting your kids with certain responsibilities can help to improve your relationship. While they might not appreciate being asked to do some things, other responsibilities will help them feel more grown up. They can help you in the kitchen or hand you tools while you repair something. If you do something together, it can feel much less like a chore to both of you. It's a chance to bond and spend time together.

You should always be working on your relationship with your children. It's important to stay in touch with them as they get older.


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